When Your Child Sees Porn

What to say, what not to say, and when to worry.


What you’ll get

The masterclass
About 45 minutes with me, taught across six short lessons.

You can watch it from beginning to end, or go straight to your child’s age or the situation you’re dealing with right now.


Guide 1: What to Say About Porn to Children and Teens

Actual words and scripts, organised by age: 0–7, 8–13 and 14+.


Guide 2: What to Say When Something Has Already Happened

For when your child tells you, you find out another way, or you walk in on something. It also covers what to say if you reacted badly and need to reopen the conversation.


Guide 3: When Should I Worry and What Do I Do Next?

Helps you work out when something needs a conversation, when it may need more support, and what to do next.

Built for the conversation you’re actually having



A five-year-old does not need the same words as a fifteen-year-old.


And “I want to prepare my child before anything happens” is a very different conversation from “Something has already happened and I need to know what to say now.”


That’s why the masterclass is organised by both age and situation, so you can go straight to what you need.

Taught by Toltu Tufa, registered psychologist and parent educator.



When Your Child Sees Porn Masterclass + 3 Parent Guides
USD $60


You’ll have ongoing access for as long as HCI continues to make this masterclass available.


Digital product:
because access to the masterclass and downloadable guides is provided immediately after purchase, purchases are final and non-refundable.



What happens after you buy?

Your access email will arrive straight away with a link to the masterclass and all three guides.

Everything is available immediately.


And if something has already happened, you do not need to sit through 45 minutes before you get help
. Go straight to the section or guide that matches what is happening in your family.



A couple of questions before you buy


My child is young. Is this too early?

No. For younger children, the focus is not on giving them an adult explanation. It is on giving them a simple safety plan and words they can use.


What if I’ve already handled the conversation badly?

You can go back. The masterclass includes how to reopen the conversation, repair your response and give your child a different experience next time.